Knowing a person can change the way you feel about her. It is all about the perception you draw by seeing them and then once you get to know them you know their background, their likes, their thoughts and then their dreams and expectations and that can affect the way you start thinking or seeing them in a different light and then even feeling about them.
Saying that it also means the thinking changes over the time we are associated with someone. In the beginning if they have been very sweet and trustworthy one incident can mark them as not so sweet and not as trustworthy.....even if you fail to acknowledge that owing to your doubts and loyalty , deep in you heart you will have that feeling of uncertainity. On the other hand if someone seems flighty or not so caring at first glance, you get to know them to be sincere and very warm later on. May be we should give the 'benefit' of doubt to people in life and never assume anything. Form an opinion only if you get to know the person very well and then too have some space for the human tendency of being unpredictable.
Saying that it also means the thinking changes over the time we are associated with someone. In the beginning if they have been very sweet and trustworthy one incident can mark them as not so sweet and not as trustworthy.....even if you fail to acknowledge that owing to your doubts and loyalty , deep in you heart you will have that feeling of uncertainity. On the other hand if someone seems flighty or not so caring at first glance, you get to know them to be sincere and very warm later on. May be we should give the 'benefit' of doubt to people in life and never assume anything. Form an opinion only if you get to know the person very well and then too have some space for the human tendency of being unpredictable.
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